Unmaking a femnie one on one
Unmaking a femnie on a one to one interaction is like getting someone off drugs or out of a cult.
Professionals who try to get drug users off drugs or to reform criminals wrote a guide called Motivational Interviewing (Miller & Rollnick, 2002) in which they suggest:
- Develop non-adversarial relationships
- Help subject to think differently and understand what could be gained through change
- Talk to subject in their terms and don’t force a change
- Express empathy
Femnie who has heard that anti-femnies are evil, but hasn’t met one – If we act nasty that will confirm the ideology and push the femnie deeper down the hole.
Be nice, friendly while explaining that the ideology is a lie.
Always attack the ideology as perverted, but decide how nice to be to the person.